Episodes

In today’s all-new AUIMLB, Mary welcomes returning guest Ashley Quinto Powell to the pod for an insightful conversation about parenting, finding joy in unexpected hobbies, and figuring out who you are through life's many transitions. They discuss family milestones, the beautiful chaos of raising kids, and why hobbies like paint-by-numbers, needlepoint, and dollhouse building can inform business decisions as well as your mental health. Learn more about Ashley’s businesses at https://myva.rocks an...

It's another Back in Business edition of AUIMLB! Dr. Gertrude Lyons joins Mary to discuss her journey to rewrite the mother code, challenging the invisible scripts that shape how women see themselves, their relationships, and their place in the world. They unpack how childhood experiences, family patterns, and societal expectations quietly influence everything from parenting to ambition, and why questioning those stories can be one of the most powerful things we do. Learn more about Dr Gertru...

In this all-new ep of AUIMLB, returning guest Meg McKeen joins Mary for a conversation about what happens when you stop following the script and start building a life on your own terms. From becoming a full-time digital nomad to running innovative networking events and empowering women in traditionally male-dominated industries, Meg shares how curiosity, experimentation, and a willingness to challenge convention have shaped her path. To learn more about Meg, visit her website: https://www.adjunc...

*Originally Aired June 13, 2023* This summer, we’ll be looking back at some of our classic episodes in our Back in Business series, available in video for the first time ever! And we’re kicking it off with this episode from June 2023: Katy Rexing joins Mary for a candid conversation about motherhood, personal growth, and her ongoing journey toward health, balance, and mindfulness. From navigating unexpected life changes to discovering the transformative power of meditation, Katy shares the le...

Emily and Savanna of Pink Poster Club join Mary for a conversation about community, activism, and finding meaningful ways to connect in an increasingly online world. They share their journey from community organizing to political engagement, discussing the power of social media, the challenges of misinformation, and the importance of understanding the issues shaping our future, from politics to climate change, and remind us that strong communities don't happen by accident: they're built by peopl...

Its an all new ep with Mary and Melissa, and as always is sponsored by…. no one. They get into wedding industry shifts, the future of event spaces, the nuances of employment classifications in the era of the gig economy, and the importance of patching your website. Check out Melissa’s NA spirit shop rec (not a sponsor… for now): https://www.ingoodspirits.online/ Have a question or thought for Mary? Leave us a voicemail for your chance to be featured on the show: https://www.allupinmyladybusiness...

Leah Weinberg, former wedding planner and founder of Weinberg Legal, joins Mary to share invaluable legal insights for entrepreneurs and wedding industry professionals. They dive into the story behind her career shift, the absolute must-haves of insurance and incorporation, the rising costs of doing business, and the growing trend of the AI armchair attorney. Looking for legal advice? You can find Leah on IG: @theleahweinberg @weinberglegal Or set up a free consultation on her website: weinbergl...

In this week’s all-new SOLAMENTE episode, Mary opens up about what it looks like to navigate a major season of transition while staying grounded in who you actually are. She shares her first steps into “pre-tirement” and reflects on the emotional rollercoaster of building a business, beating the odds, establishing core values, and redefining what success looks like through a modern and personal lens. Have a question or thought for Mary? Leave us a voicemail for your chance to be featured on the ...

Mary and Melissa are back and diving headfirst into the brave new world of AI, client contracts, and the increasingly complicated art of just trying to do your job. They unpack AI’s self-invited creep into service industries, why “the computer said so” is not actually a clever legal strategy, and the growing importance of human oversight in a world that would really love to automate everything. Have a question or thought for Mary? Leave us a voicemail for your chance to be featured on the show: ...

Folk musician Anna Vogelzang joins Mary to share her journey, from performing in high school bands and touring in her 20s to navigating the complexities of streaming royalties, digital distribution, and the encroachment of AI in everyday life, whether we want it or not. If you’ve ever been curious about what it actually looks like to make music in the digital age, this episode offers an honest look at the hurdles and triumphs of a career musician successfully navigating the modern music industry...

Mary once again flies SOLO, spending this ep to unpack what it takes to stay true to yourself while juggling a full-blown career, family life, and everything in between. She gets into the messy middle of identity, calling out outdated gender roles, figuring out boundaries that actually stick, and stepping into your power without overthinking it to death. Have a question or thought for Mary? Leave us a voicemail for your chance to be featured on the show: https://www.allupinmyladybusiness.com/voi...

In this SOLO ep, Mary digs into the state of society, politics, and the non-stop joyride of American wealth and power. She connects the dots between national identity, modern life, and why everything feels a little… a lot. Along the way, she calls out our collective love of convenience, questions consumer culture, and makes a strong case for actually paying attention and getting involved. Whether it's a dance floor or democracy, both rely heavily on people showing up. Have a question or thought ...

Need a sign to finally go for that thing you keep talking about? This is it. Mary sits down with Janel Phillips to talk about her dreamy yoga retreat, Sansara, and what happens when you actually take the leap. Janel shares her journey from Canada to building her business (and a whole community) from the ground up, complete with the highs, the hurdles, and the “here we go” moments faced from concept to success. They get into the power of treating people well, the impact of starting a local school...

In this week’s ep, Mary and Melissa tackle the ultimate high-stakes question: can you mix friendship and business without controversy? They get into the real-life dynamics of planning events and DJing for friends, where discussing discounts and managing expectations can get interesting fast. Along the way, they chat about reading the room (literally and culturally), why experience is the unsung hero of a smooth event, and how the right (or very wrong) song choice can change everything. Have a qu...

Mary and Melissa are fresh off a DJ showcase and ready to debrief. They dive into how T&J has evolved, why collaboration is essential, and touch on capitalism’s ensh*tifcation of everything. They also unpack the post-pandemic reality of rebuilding strong systems without the organic training opportunities they once relied on, and how they’ve adapted to maintain high standards. Have a question or thought for Mary? Leave us a voicemail for your chance to be featured on the show: https://www.allupin...

Mary and Melissa are back, and this one gets a little philosophical, spiraling in the best way through the realities of running a business in modern capitalism, from training to the absolute chaos of tipping culture, it’s equal parts “how is this working so well?” and “how are we still functioning?” They also dig into how technology has changed the game, for better and worse, and why it might be time to rethink how we approach work, ownership, and success altogether. Have a question or thought f...

In this episode of AUIMLB, Mary sits down with bioethicist Dr. Emily Anderson to unpack how humanity went from the cautionary tale of Frankenstein to the very real ethical debates shaping medicine today. Along the way, they get into wartime atrocities, medical scandals, Olympic-level discipline, and why politics keeps sticking its nose into scientific research. Have a question or thought for Mary? Leave us a voicemail for your chance to be featured on the show: https://www.allupinmyladybusiness....

Mary and Melissa wrap up the Toast & Jam 20th Anniversary series with a little perspective, and a lot of gratitude. After 20 years in the wedding industry, they reflect on what it means to build a career around something they genuinely love: music, creativity, and making people dance. Have a question or thought for Mary? Leave us a voicemail for your chance to be featured on the show: https://www.allupinmyladybusiness.com/voicemail/ Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode, then co...

Mary and Melissa are back for Part 2 of the Toast & Jam 20th Anniversary Q&A, and they’re bringing even more behind-the-scenes tea from 20 years in the wedding trenches. They chat about how the business has evolved, the growing pains, the wild ride of entrepreneurship, and the importance of strong relationships while building the biz. Have a question or thought for Mary? Leave us a voicemail for your chance to be featured on the show: https://www.allupinmyladybusiness.com/voicemail/ Don’t forget...

Melissa joins Mary to celebrate 20 years of Toast & Jam! They reveal the scrappy origin story, relive some truly unhinged wedding moments, and spill brand-building secrets that turned a side hustle into a staple. Along the way, they get real about authenticity, representation, and carving out space in an industry that hasn’t always offered female DJs the aux cord. Have a question or thought for Mary? Leave us a voicemail for your chance to be featured on the show: https://www.allupinmyladybusine...

Mary teams up with data queen Jean Clipperton to do what the internet has been trying to do for years: scientifically analyze Taylor Swift’s feelings. Yes, we’re talking spreadsheets, sentiment analysis, and emotional algorithms applied to pop’s most dissected discography. Because if anyone deserves peer-reviewed heartbreak, it’s Taylor. Mary and Jean dive into why studying women in music actually matters, how computational tools can map emotional landscapes across albums, and Taylor’s sacred an...

Legendary music journalist Jessica Hopper joins Mary to unpack the cultural shift that was Lilith Fair and why it still matters. They dig into Jessica’s journey through music journalism, the making of the Lilith Fair documentary, and how a festival led by women somehow became radical just by existing. It’s a love letter to community, a reality check on progress, and a reminder that women in music have always been the movement, whether the industry was ready or not. You can watch “Lilith Fair: Bu...

On today’s AUIMLB, we’re talking breathwork, body awareness, and the emotional side of pain with Katie Tomaszewski. Mary & Katie explore how tuning into your body can ease chronic pain, spark euphoric emotional releases, and boost mental clarity. The conversation also tackles the impact of social media on mental health, the importance of community support, and reflections on life and death that can deepen personal growth. To learn more about Katie’s business, visit her website: deeplinehealth.co...

In this episode of 'All Up in My Lady Business', Mary goes SOLAMENTE, answering questions sent in by listeners right off the dome. From musical influences growing up to the hard lessons learned in business, she shares insights on her life, balancing motherhood with her career (anyone else hate that phrase?), and her evolving definition of success. It’s a raw, funny, off-the-cuff deep dive into her personal and professional journey. Here’s the link to Mary’s short bio. Don’t forget to subscrib...